I used to try to include every single person that I talked about on my blog here. This became time consuming and lead to a variety of problems such as this page being long and full of too much information, people have hurt feelings because I forgot to include them and me being horrible at making the formatting here look good. I’ve scaled it back to include the people that I talk about the most, people with whom my relationship might be confusing and people who I refer to by an initial only. Feel free to ask questions regarding who I’m talking about when I refer to other people in the comments section of each post!


Alex Reynolds: That’s me! I’m a 20-something year old spanko bottom living in Los Angeles. I’m a polyamorous, atheist geek. I like cute things, learning and domesticity. I was born in Upstate New York and was raised primarily in New Jersey. I currently work full time as a spanking, fetish and nude model, which is a lifestyle that allows me to travel, to meet remarkable people and to thoroughly enjoy what I do. In addition to this, I co-run Northern Spanking and Kitchen Sink Spanking. I also write spanking romance novels, too! I’m very happy with my life.


Paul Kennedy: Paul is my primary partner: my fiance, my Dominant and my favorite person. We’re more compatible than I’ve ever known two people to be before, and I continue to be surprised and amazed by how well he knows exactly what I need. We recently moved in together, and we’re enjoying building a life together. I’ve never been so happy or felt as loved as I do when I’m with him. Paul runs Northern Spanking (with my assistance now), and we first met when I was filming for said site.

Raffos/Rafa/R.: R is one of my primary romantic partners. We’ve been dating for nine years (!!!!), and have a wonderful, loving, mutually supportive, extremely sexually charged relationship. He’s an awesome person, but pretty much vanilla (although one of the most successfully poly men I’ve ever known). He’s very kink aware and has attended munches, local events and even parts of national spanking parties with me, since he finds that people in the kink scene are more like to share his views on both polyamory and the world in general! He’s also done camera work for Dreams of Spanking and Northern Spanking.

Z: Z is my vanilla girlfriend, and another of my primary romantic partners. She’s sweet, brilliant, lovable and incredibly sexy. She’s also become very kink aware, and sometimes helps me to come up with scene ideas. She shares my enjoyment of adventures and fun things, knows more about tea than anyone else on earth and makes delicious, delicious food. I love her with all my kitten heart!

Adriana Evans: Adriana is one of my favorite people, although our relationship cannot easily be defined. This is okay with me, because definitions don’t actually add anything to a relationship. I can talk about anything with her, from emotions and feelings to the filthiest and most embarrassing of fantasies. We go on dates and connect physically whenever we’re together. We’re each other’s girl, and it’s a great way to be.

Drlectr/Joe: Joe is my FWB. We’ve had a long and special relationship which isn’t really defined by a label. He’s not “the boss of me” but he’s one of my all time favorite people to play with. I consider Joe to be one of the people who is closest to my heart, no matter how much time we spend together or what we spend it doing. His heart is full of love and it always shows in his behavior.


Christy Cutie: Christy is one of my best friends! She’s a popular spanking model with an adorable smile, a big sense of adventure and forever perfect hair. We see each other at least once a week, and we tend to get into a lot of trouble when left alone unsupervised. Shenanigans always ensue!

Erica Scott: I’m pretty sure that everyone knows who Erica is. She’s an extremely popular spanking blogger and a spanking model. She’s smart, funny and compassionate, and she was one of the first people who I started to really like in the spanking community. I’ve always felt very special that we became friends, and I consider her to be part of my chosen family. Erica is the kind of woman that I aspire to be. I’m lucky enough to get to spend a lot of time with her, and it seems like we’re always closing restaurants with our never ending conversations.

Lily Starr: Lily is a well known spanking model and spanking content producer and a good friend and scene sister of mine. We get together as often as we can, usually at Disneyland. I’m sure you can imagine how amazing that is! She’s someone I relate to both as a fellow naughty little girl and as an adult, and I adore spending time with her.

Robert Wolf: Robert is Lily’s husband/Daddy/Dominant. I met him through her and we developed an awesome friendship of our own. I really trust and enjoy playing with Robert. He’s one of the people that I play the hardest with. Even though he’s not the boss of me, he’s one of the people in that “gray area” where I tend to listen to things he says because I respect him (AKA, off-chart bossing). He’s a great person.

Maddy Marks/Maddy Cake: Maddy is another popular spanking model and another one of my best friends (I’m truly lucky to have so many amazing people in my life). She literally lives down the street from me now, which makes life even better! She’s one of the people I’ve known in the scene the longest, and she’s been there for me through a lot of craziness, which I will always appreciate. We get together as often as we can for dates that usually start out with hiking and end with us going shopping, buying more stuff than we should have and getting into trouble! I love her.

Siq: Siq is Maddy’s boyfriend/Dom/Daddy and serves as my protector, looking out for me when Paul can’t be there. We don’t have a D/s relationship, but I trust him and listen to his judgement and know that if we’re at a party together, he has an eye on me and that makes me feel safe. I love watching him and Maddy interact: they’re one of my favorite couples. He’s awesome. 😀

Ami: Ami is one of my all time best friends. She’s got pretty much my favorite sense of humor (I am always cracking up when talking to her) and is really amusing to observe being spanked. We’ve been through a lot together, and I know that I can tell her anything, whether it’s dark or dirty! She’s so much fun, and also so loving and caring. I miss her all the time and wish she was my next door neighbor (although I bet the rest of my neighborhood doesn’t wish that we lived next door to each other, because we make a lot of mischief together!)

The Bad Alex: The Bad Alex is a friend I met over Fetlife and got to know at spanking parties. We’re both named Alex, but I’m extremely well behaved and she’s horribly bad, so she got her title so that people could tell us apart in conversation. 😛 (Note: The Bad Alex is also a very sweet girl, and I love her to death). We tend to get ourselves into ridiculous situations together, like going to a liquor store in school uniforms or doing a roleplay in which we’re accidentally sisters of the same age with the same name! Bad Alex is super smart, but she often uses her intellect for naughtiness, to hilarious ends. I love her lots and constantly miss her, too.

Ten Amorette: Another popular spanking model and another one of my very close friends! Ten is someone who I love very much. She can be silly and ridiculous (to which I respond with “Oh, Ten! Ha ha ha”) but we’ve shared some serious moments that mean a lot to me, too. It feels like Ten and I never get to spend enough time together these days. I hope to change that in the near future!

Spankcake: I first met fellow blogger Spankcake at Shadowlane, but I got to know her through Erica Scott. Little did I know she would soon become one of my most treasured girlfriends! Erica, Spankcake and I get together and talk and talk and talk for hours. I recently got SC hooked on watching spanking videos, so we’re now enjoying doing that together, too. Spankcake has a similar set of opinions on what should be done in most situations to me: we should drop everything and get sushi now! We should get slushies at the store. You should definitely buy that hat with cat ears on it! We don’t need to go to bed yet, let’s watch more videos! She also relates to me on a lot of parts on my life, and we’re able to give each other support a lot of the time. I’m so grateful I’ve gotten to know her. She rocks.

James and Korey Mae Johnson: James and Korey run Stormy Night Publications and are my publishers. They’re some of my favorite people in the scene. I met them at the first party that I attended and our relationship has grown much closer over the past several years. When we’re together we end up talking and laughing so long that I start to lose my voice, and the amount of inside jokes that we have is starting to turn into its own language.

Fatface: Fatface is Pandora’s cat. I am in love with Fatface. She is an absolutely perfect creature in my eyes.

I have a lot of other wonderful friends in the spanking world, and I’ll slowly build this list up again!

I have deleted the section talking about ex partners: please assume that if someone isn’t listed on this page but is included as a partner in an older post, that they’re an ex. Blogging leaves a record of one’s previous life, but dwelling on that is not healthy, and it is my wish not to be asked questions about my previous relationships. Thank you for your respect on this matter.



Oh, Hai!


Los Angeles, California, United States

First and foremost, I’m a girl who loves being spanked. It’s at the very center of my being. I’m also a professional spanking model, which means I get to do what I love for my job. I’m twenty six years old, and currently located in Los Angeles when I’m not traveling around on my adventures. My vanilla interests include poetry, film history, academia, Pokemon, indie music, baby animals, baking and cooking, collecting vintage clothes and lots of cuddling.

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